Emmalina Malaya is here!

Been so busy with a new baby and my little Kyla Bear running around that I have not had the time to blog. Thankfully I have my Sienna bug who is such a big help to me. I do not know what I would do if I didn't have her around to help me. Tristan on the other hand not so much of a help. He's the same old wild child he's always been. He's just like the little boy in the movie 'Where the Wild things Are.' As for our little Emmalina Malaya, she was born on December 31, 2010 at 12:08 pm. She was 7lbs 9oz and only 18 inches long. She is quite the petite little thing. She came into the world via c-section. This was my fourth c-section and my last! When the Dr cut me open the nurse turned to me and said, "you are a mess in there!" I guess I had so much scar tissue from all of the surgeries and they had a horrible time trying to cut through it. It took them a long time to get her out and I had bruises on the right side of my stomach from it. Thankfully, she came out just fine no complications and she was healthy as could be, but the surgery took it's toll on me. This was the hardest recovery ever! I was in so much pain! I have a really high tolerance to pain and the pain after this one had me curled up in tears and that was with the maximum pain killers they could give me. Then when I came home it got worse. The sent me home with a prescription for Ibuprofen. In the past I got sent home with Vicodin. So, needless to say the first few days home I sat around in a pain coma not wanting to move. I swear if this pregnancy had been my first I would not have wanted anymore! I've posted the hospital pictures below. I will post some more recent pictures in a bit.

Finally I get to go home and meet my sisters and brother after four long days!

Mommy's little china doll!

Mommy and Emmy finally got some good sleep on the last day in the hospital

Taking a walk with Mommy and Grandma and stopping to enjoy the sunshine rays through the window.

I'm already so in love with my Mommy. I like to mimic everything she does!

I was smiling the minute I was born. I have a hint of a smile here.

After they yanked me out of the warmth and comfort of my Mommy's tummy I screamed and would not be settled until my Grammy placed me next to my Mommy and she kissed my cheek. Grammy would take me away from her and I would scream again. I wanted my Mommy! So Grammy would place me next to her again and as soon as I felt my Mommy's loving kiss upon my cheek I'd be calm again.

I'm out and they cleaned me up a bit and I still don't know where my mommy is....waaaaaa!

Only one day away from being 39 weeks pregnant. I honestly thought this day would never get here! It's been a long grueling road, filled with every challenge imagineable, but at last I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I am scheduled for my C-section on December 31st at Noon. So, I will be bringing in the New Year with a pink little bundle of joy wrapped up in my arms. What a way to bring in 2010! Hopefully she will be a sign of new joys to come our way this year. I will sure be happy to say goodbye to 2009. I think I can honestly say this has been the most challenging year of my life. Full of many losses and many heavy hearts. Looking back at my life two years ago, never would I see myself standing where I am today. Everything has changed, and I don't mean just the shape of my body! Well, here are some pictures of our little thumper tucked away safe in Mommy's tummy! Yes, I've been calling her thumper because she's always thumping me like the rabbit Thumper (and of course we don't have a name for her yet...ooopse!)

Baby Belly on 12-04-09 (36 weeks) Baby Belly dressed up for Halloween 10-31-09 (31 weeks) Baby Belly on 10-09-09 (28 weeks)

Baby Belly on 9-11-09 (24 weeks)

My baby Girl at 21 weeks

My baby at 14 weeks

My Baby at 14 weeks

In my 31 years here on earth, this is the first Christmas Eve that I have ever spent alone. I usually travel to Arizona to see my Mom and Sisters for Christmas, but this year I am 39 weeks pregnant and therefore unable to travel and make the trip. My heart goes out to those who have nobody to spend the Holidays with. I have been so very blessed with a close knit family all these years and now I know what it's truely like to spend one alone (and let me just say that it SUCKS!!!!!) When Sienna and Tristan went to their Dads house this afternoon I did manage to have a little fun with Kyla. My Kyla Bear and I ventured down to the beach in our little Santa hats to stick our toes in the sand and watch the Christmas Eve sunset (something I have never done, guess it's a Christmas Eve of firsts) After the sun set on another Christmas Eve gone by, we stopped for our traditional pizza feast. On the way home Kyla fell asleep with visions of sugar plums and wouldn't wake up for anything, so I sat alone in front of the twinkling lights of the tree and tried to enjoy my pizza in the uncomforting chilling silence of an empty house. It was the still silence that brought me to tears and my heart felt so empty! I miss my family and I miss my babies! I have tried all day to be positive and thankful for what I do have, but being pregnant and alone at the Holidays is unbearable!!!

My snuggle Bear, giving Mommy some loves at the beach!

My Boo Bear!

The Christmas Eve Sun setting at our place on the beach.

Kyla bear, Mommy bear, and baby bear snuggling on the beach and watching the sunset. Thank you to the kind Elf who spotted us in our Santa hats down by the shore and strolled all the way down to offer to take our photo! Thank you little elf!

Kyla Dancing and singing to "All the Single Ladies", by Beyonce.

The Sound of Music

My little Kyla Bear is discovering her voice! She loves to sing along to familiar songs that come on the radio. We all know her favorite "The Single Ladies" by Beyonce. Well, the other night I decided to put the Sound of Music on for the kids. They had never watched it before, but Kyla fell in love with all the singing and was singing along, even though she had never heard any of the songs. At the end of the movie, when the VanTrapps are all hiking up the mountain and they sing that song "Climb every mountain" Kyla turns to all of us arms outstretched to the side and opens her mouth wide to belt out an "AWWWWWWWWW" but it appears she is only pretending to belt out the last note of the song. It was to cute! We all started cracking up and then she hid in embarrassment. We tried to get her to do it again, but she just didn't do it justice the second time around. She just wasn't as dramtic, this was more like she was just lip synching. Still cute though.

Kyla is two!

Here are some pictures from Kyla Rayne's Tinkerbell Birthday Party. Considering we had to change the party to Sunday cause nobody could make it on Saturday everything turned out pretty good. Jenna and I experiemented with fondant for the first time and I think we did a fantastic job considering. Kyla was pretty cute opening up all her presents. She would rip one little piece of paper off the gift and she had to throw it in the trash herself, before continuing. She enjoyed all the gifts and even the clothes. She is all girl! Loves the shoes and purses and she'll tell you, "Mommy....look....awww cute!" If she likes an outfit. She's too much! Well, here are some pics...enjoy~

Kyla Rayne is two!

My how the time flies. I can't believe my baby girl will be two tomorrow. Has it really been two years since I first held my 8lb 6oz Kyla bear in my arms. It seems like only yesterday we were celebrating her first Birthday Party! With her yummy turtle cake. She loved "Tutles" Now it's "Bell Bell" (Tinkerbell) and "olphins" (dolphins) and thanks to Cay Cay "Elmo's world". Well, here are some pictures of Mommy's photo shoot with her soon to be two year old Kyla Bear. She was afraid of the back drop I put up, so I had to stand on my head and beat myself up a couple times to even get a smile out of her, but I think they came out okay.